A difficult question parents ask is whether they will raise their kids with religion. When considering such a question we should consider how religion shapes a person’s character. This has been the subject of numerous sociological studies:
A study at UNC of 2500 adolescents revealed that those with religious influence are less likely to engage in risky behaviors such as drugs, violence, shoplifting, vandalism, and robbery. Another study of 1600 Canadians found that those who believe in God value interpersonal virtues — such as patience, forgiveness, and friendship — more than atheists. Another study of 1000 adults found that evangelicals were less likely to engage in profanity, pornography, lying, adultery, and other questionable behaviors.
These studies indicate that religion can mold our ethical character. Perhaps the reason why is because religions emphasize deontological ethics – or in other words – rules to follow despite the consequences. These rules include the 10 commandments, but also other religious ideals such as forgiveness, humility, tolerance and the golden rule. The religious are taught to act a certain way regardless of consequences. Thus the biggest obstacle to such lofty aspirations is ourselves. This sets the groundwork for a life of personal introspection and reformation – the hallmark of a religious lifestyle.
These principles are difficult to arive at from a secular viewpoint. Why should one antagonize themselves? Especially if there is no obvious connection to personal benefit. While being religious or non-religious does not determine our moral character, the studies suggest that growing up around religion fosters a higher moral standard – something parents should think about.